The teenage years don't have to feel

like bracing for impact

When you learn to pause and Name What Works, you stop reacting from fear — and start seeing your child clearly again.

That one shift changes everything

Ready for support putting this into practice?

Join my small 6-week Name What Works Parent Coaching Cohort for parents of teens and preteens.

Begins September 30 • Wednesdays, 5:30–6:45 PM PT • Limited to 10 families

Prefer private support? Explore 1:1 coaching

Your child became more withdrawn, reactive, or impossible to reach. You've tried everything. The more you push for change, the more disconnected you feel, and you've started to wonder if something is wrong with them. Or worse, with you.

That cycle isn't a reflection of failure. It's a pattern — and it can be interrupted.

  • You react in ways you don't feel good about and can't seem to stop yourself in the moment

  • You've read the books, tried the strategies — and feel more confused than when you started

  • Conversations keep turning into conflict, and you're afraid of long-term distance

  • You feel urgency to fix it — but have no idea what to actually do in the moment

  • You've stopped trusting your instincts and find yourself overthinking every response

Two females, a mother and daughter, sitting on a couch, appearing upset or upset, with one looking away and the other resting her head on her knees.

Something shifted — and you're not sure when it happened.

Book "Name What Works"? →

YOU DON’T HAVE TO FIGURE THIS OUT ALONE.

Name What Works: 6-Week Parent Coaching Cohort

Sometimes you don't need another parenting book, podcast, or piece of advice.

You need somewhere to say:

“Okay. Here's what happened last night. What do I do now?”

Join a small group of parents for six weeks of practical coaching, real-life problem-solving, and support designed to help you feel less reactive, more confident, and more connected to your teen.

6 weekly 75-minute sessions
1 private 1:1 session with Ashley
Limited to 10 families
Begins September 30, 2026


When you learn to Name What Works, you shift out of threat mode — and start responding from a place of clarity.

All of my offerings help you Name What Works, so you can change your perception in real time and stay connected to your child, even in the hard moments.